SECRETS TO RELATIONSHIPS.....

SECRETS OF RELATIONSHIPS
By Prince Hotor Kazi
SELF LOVE
There is a school of thought that emphasizes on the power of togetherness and the success of everything when collectiveness in doing things is taken. 
Most often people in relationships rely solely on this philosophy making it difficult for them to make headway. .......
In every relationship, there should be a common goal. ...this however does not mean individual goals should be necessarily the same.
Also, having a successful relationship life does not mean the partners must agree to everything, but rather they should understand each other.
Individualism is very important in identifying oneself and helps one to appreciate his potentials and dreams. Like I wrote earlier, every relationship must have a goal.
Most often people enter into relationships with no prior identification and orientation of what they are made of and what they want to achieve in life....some do have but throw them away because they are desperate to keep the guy or lady.
Mind you, I am not against sacrificing for your relationship, but when it reaches a point where the other partner undermines your goals and even Potentials, then it calls for an alarm.
You should have your own goals and aspirations before entering into a relationship and this obviously makes some clear indications on how prepared you are for that kind of life.
Have self love in whatever you do, your happiness should not be solely dependent on your partner. To be cont......